Friends for Mental Health is a non-profit community organization that provides families and friends with the support, information and education they need to help them cope with a loved one's mental illness.

Benefits of Independent Living, by Audrey Coulombe, counsellor

Sometimes it is difficult for family members to even imagine their loved one living independently. After all the years either living in the family home or being forced to move out of apartments for one reason or another, it can seem like an insurmountable task for someone living with a chronic mental illness to be able to live on their own. Well, there’s hope!

Research indicates that, for people who are adequately supported and have the functional capacity, transitioning to living in a community setting is an important step in attaining recovery. The standards for treatment of severe mental illness are undergoing change; rather than settling for a remission of visible symptoms, health-care providers and consumers are now looking at returning to the previous functional level (the ability to do the things that one was able to do before becoming ill) as the ultimate goal of treatment. For many people with schizophrenia, bipolar disorder, and other psychiatric disabilities, living in the community can be a part of returning to a healthy level of functioning (Schizoprenia.com).

Families and their loved ones should be aware of the different community mental health resources and more specifically, the ones that are in the West Island to assist with independent living for people with mental illness. With the proper encouragement and support from the family, and help from the appropriate resources, it can be possible.

There are several options: for the people suffering from the most chronic and persistent mental health problems, the family can look at several group home options where there is constant care; such as, Omega Group Home (Pierrefonds, and also a new building to open up in Cloverdale in January 2009) or Forward House (NDG) - either of which could be considered as a stepping stone to more independent living in the future - as the maximum stay is approximately two years. There is also the Douglas Hospital services (Verdun), or L’Abri en Ville (Montreal) – both of which offer long-term housing. All of these housing programs offer 24/7 care for your loved one. Each requires an interview and evaluation of the client, and there is more than likely a waiting list. You can always plan ahead for your loved one by getting them on the waiting list. That way, during the waiting period you can discuss concerns, encourage and prepare your loved one. For each of the above mentioned places, your loved one would have to make the initial phone call themselves. Costs differ at each place.

There are also living arrangements for people suffering from an illness, but who are higher functioning, and do not want or need constant supervision. These living arrangements usually offer a semi-supervised setting where a mental health worker/counsellor, and/or volunteer, will visit the person in their home once a week (or more/less depending on individual need) to make sure the person is doing well. Some of these places include: West Island Citizen Advocacy (Church Apartment Program - CARE), where individuals either share an apartment with one or two other people suffering from an illness, or can apply to live alone in a 3 ½ in either of two Pierrefonds apartment buildings (Farley House and Herron House). There is a waiting list, but it is definitely worth signing up if your loved one wants their own apartment where the rent is 25% of their monthly earnings (even if they are on welfare!).                               

If your loved one feels that they can live on their own with limited  intervention, there is also Community Perspective (Ste. Geneviève), which offers a program, Home Run, which aids individuals with mental health problems to find low-cost living arrangements. They can also provide supportive home visits (for help with daily living skills) from a community worker for your loved one if needed. Diogène, in Montreal, also offers similar services for apartment hunting (plus help with judicial problems and recovery of identity papers).

These are several good options to assist you to help your loved one. They do not have to do it all on their own. If your loved one feels they are ready to go out on their own, please take advantage of these services. A little independence and autonomy go a long way toward mental HEALTH!

Telephone numbers:

Omega Group Home                                                          514-683-1647

Forward House                                                                    514-484-3763

Douglas Hospital In-Patient Services                             514-761-6131

L’Abri en Ville                                                                       514-932-2199

West Island Citizen Advocacy                                          514-694-5850

Perspective Communautaire                                            514-696-0972

Diogène                                                                                 514-874-1214

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